Sounds weird, but really makes sense --- Have you ever considered custom wheels?
My D'fly has custom wheels made by Jeremy Parfitt at Alchemy Bicycle Works in Santa Fe, NM. Give Jeremy a call and he'll take you through a neat interview process to determine you best custom wheel 'fit" based on stuff like your weight, ride style and others. My wheel set weighs a mere 1,264g total --- lighter than most carbon sets --- and they're stronger and of much higher quality (Tune hubs, American Classic rims, etc) than my previous Nucleons.